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Prodigal Research

 

 

James M. Kushiner

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Remarks to The World Congress of Families V, Amsterdam, Netherlands, 12 August 2009

Abstract

Research shows that religious faith supports stronger families, higher educational achievement, fewer behavioral problems, less crime, and thus responsible citizenship, which are important for any democracy. Democracy depends on the strength of the family and a critical mass of virtuous citizens. Without faith, more children suffer, families languish, and democracy is undermined. While religious faith is an assurance about things we do not see, visible “facts” and benefits can point us to the good and the true. It’s time to return, like the Prodigal Son, and receive the benefits.

Introduction

Man studies everything. We study the earth, sky and sea and everything therein. We study our bodies, every part and cell, including our DNA programming. We study our communities, families, sexual and social habits.

We call the information from our studies “findings,” as if to suggest that we are looking for something. The process of looking for things is called a search, and so we do research to produce findings.

Social scientists have completed many studies and research on families and social life. When it comes to the relationship of religious faith to family life and social development, which have implications for our democratic institutions, what are their findings?

Family Life

• Married individuals who attended religious services often were less likely to be unfaithful to their spouses than peers who attended less frequently.[i]

• Individuals who reported being members of conservative religious affiliations (conservative Protestant, conservative sectarian faiths) as well as Catholics reported, on average, reduced odds of marital infidelity compared to peers with no religious affiliation.[ii]

• Controlling for other selected factors associated with the likelihood of divorce, counties with higher concentrations of a number of religious groups had a lower incidence of divorce.[iii]

• Higher levels of marital socializing, and wives’ reports of happiness with the affection and understanding of their husbands are associated with higher religious attendance of married men with children.[iv]

• For men, having a child appeared to be associated with increased attendance at religious services.[v]

• Fathers’ religious participation appeared to influence engagement in their children’s lives. Men who attended religious services more frequently around the time of their children’s birth reported being more involved in the children’s lives one year later compared to peers who attended less frequently. Fathers with high levels of religious attendance (at least several times a month) around the time of the birth of their children reported the highest levels of engagement with their children one year later.[vi]

• Among fathers living in urban areas, those who more frequently attended religious services were more likely to be engaged with their one-year-olds (i.e., “playing games such as peekaboo…”, “singing songs or nursery rhymes with the child,” and “reading stories to the child”) than peers who attended less frequently. Fathers who reduced the frequency of their religious attendance during the first year of their children’s lives became, on average, less engaged with their one-year-olds compared to peers who maintained their level of religious attendance.[vii]

Religious faith is also beneficial to intellectual and social development of the individual.

Social Development

• According to the report of parents, children of parents who more frequently attended religious services had a higher level of cognitive development.[viii]

• On average, teens from intact families with frequent religious attendance earned the highest GPA (2.94) when compared to (a) their peers from intact families with low to no religious attendance (2.75), (b) peers from non-intact families with frequent religious attendance (2.72), and (c) peers from non-intact families with low to no religious attendance (2.48).[ix]

• Children whose parents both attended church frequently tended to exhibit higher levels of self-control.[x]

• Parents’ discussions with their children about religion was related to a decrease in the likelihood that their children would exhibit problem behavior in school.[xi]

• Children were less likely to exhibit behavioral problems at school if either of their parents attended religious services and if both parents attended church with the same frequency, whether sporadically or frequently, than children whose parents did not attend religious services at all.[xii]

• Teens from intact families with frequent religious attendance were the least likely to have ever committed a theft of $50 or more (11.7 percent) when compared to (a) those from intact families with low to no religious attendance (15.3 percent), (b) those from non-intact families with frequent religious attendance (15.8 percent), and (c) those from non-intact families with low to no religious attendance (23.5 percent).[xiii]

• Adolescents and young women who said that religion and spirituality were more important in their lives were less likely than other peers to smoke or binge drink.[xiv]

• Compared with peers who had lower levels of religiosity as pre-teens (measured by participation in religious activities, studies, services, and importance ascribed to religion), those with higher levels of pre-teen religiosity tended to exhibit higher levels of religiosity as adolescents and young adults and a lower likelihood of engaging in substance abuse.[xv]

Democratic Citizenship

Religious faith supports higher educational achievement, fewer behavioral problems, less crime, and thus responsible citizenship, which are important for any democracy.

The Founders of American democracy realized that an educated and virtuous and morally responsible citizenry is necessary for democracy to work.

Joseph Weiler, Professor of International and European Law at the College d’Europe in Brugge, said in Vienna in 2006:

One possible explanation for the success of what used to be called “Western Liberal Democracy” is precisely the Judaeo-Christian tradition…

The Judeao-Christian tradition teaches self-restraint in our own exercise of our liberties. We are free to do many things, but we don’t simply follow all our desires without restraint. …Our political culture is a culture of self-restraint in the exercise of power, which—as even an atheist or agnostic would acknowledge—we owe to the Judeo-Christian tradition.

Another factor, he notes, one that perhaps the “Judaic tradition has contributed even more than the Christian one,” is that “we uphold the idea of the rule of law. There is no democracy without the rule of law.”[xvi]

Further, in the words of Catholic writer George Weigel:

You cannot have a democracy without a … sufficient critical mass of men and women who have internalized the habits of the heart and the habits of the mind—the virtues, if you will—that are essential to the conduct of an experiment in democratic self-governance. Democracy is not a machine that can run by itself. The machine can, for a time, compensate for the inadequacies of the citizenry. But over the long haul, the machine needs mechanics—and mechanics of a certain cast of mind and soul—to make it work such that the machinery serves the ends of human flourishing. Every two-year old ever born is a natural tyrant: a beautiful bundle of willfulness and self-centeredness who must, in our societies, be transformed, somehow, into a democratic citizen, a member of a civil society. I do not believe that Christian orthodoxy constitutes the only possible set of religious and moral warrants capable of making tyrants into democrats. But I believe that Christian personalism and a Christian optic on the human condition can be a powerful and positive influence in shaping the attitudes toward “the other” that are essential to the democratic experiment. . . . .

…Christian orthodoxy engenders reverence toward the neighbor, the “other,” as a unique subject. And this reverence includes religious tolerance. In fact, religious tolerance is a religious accomplishment and religiously warranted.[xvii]

Religious citizens are good citizens even in a secular democracy. Here are just a few “findings” from research.

• The religious tradition of a nation was related to the level of participation by citizens in voluntary associations. Nations with a stronger religious tradition, which was measured by the number of individuals who identified themselves as a “religious person,” tended to have higher levels of participation in voluntary associations by their citizens than those nations with weaker religious traditions.[xviii]

Religious believers not only participate in their religious institutions; they support and serve secular institutions at a higher level than non-religious citizens:

• Compared with the donations of peers who seldom or never attended a house of worship, the average donation given to nonreligious charities by individuals who attended a house of worship weekly or more often was 14 percent higher.[xix]

• Compared with peers who seldom or never attended a house of worship, individuals who attended weekly or more often were 31 percentage points more likely to volunteer for causes that were completely secular (60% vs. 29%).[xx]

Practicality or Faith?

We can go on and on citing findings that correlate religious faith and practice with family stability, healthy socialization and other positive benefits for a democratic society.

So, if religious faith is good for your family, for society, for democracy, why not embrace it? But it is not so easy for people to return to religious faith. Even the benefits may not be persuasive when other factors are present, especially, if we are honest, a lifestyle that would have to be curtailed or abandoned if one converted to orthodox Christianity.

Russell Kirk, a founder of the modern American conservative movement, remarked that “attempts at persuading people that religion is useful” cannot

meet with much genuine success. No man sincerely goes down on his knees to the divine because he has been told that such rituals lead to the beneficial consequences of tolerably honest behavior in commerce. People will conform their actions to the precepts of religion only when they earnestly believe the doctrines of that religion to be true. . . . [F]aith in divine power cannot be summoned up merely when that is found expedient.[xxi]

Yet sometimes a consideration of benefits in the face of personal needs leads individuals by small steps to religious faith. A man may become more religious after converting to his fiancé’s religion before marriage. It may be a conversion of convenience, but he may grow to embrace that faith more strongly.

Parents seeking help raising a child with behavioral problems may attend a parenting class sponsored by Christians. Through the friendships made there, they discover religion, visit a church, and eventually join. They became religious through seeking help for a need, motivated by love.

The Gospels show many people bringing to Jesus their sick, lame, blind, and deaf: Jesus responds: “Your faith has made you whole.” Their faith is a practical action seeking a tangible benefit. Jesus does not turn them away.

De Verloren Zoon (The Prodigal Son)

Our findings show us the benefits of religion. What does this mean for our societies? Let me answer by reviewing a few pictures of De Verloren Zoon, the Prodigal Son, by Rembrandt.

One: The Prodigal Son abandons his father, but still takes his inheritance and travels to a far country.

He no longer needs the religion of his Father, just as we in the West have outgrown Christianity but still utilize the fruit of this inheritance.

Two: In that far country, the son wastes his inheritance in loose living.

Clearly the implication is of sexual license. He lives off the labors of the previous generation, enjoying himself and taking no thought for the future. He frequents bars, looking for casual sex, and wants only to have a good time. After spending his father’s money, he puts it all on a Visa or Mastercard.

Three. The Prodigal, having spent everything and maxed his credit cards, gets a low paying job, feeding swine.

He is starving. We live with spiritual and emotional starvation—broken homes, addicted, suicidal children, STDs, bleak economic futures, with the shadows of a coming demographic winter. Much of this can be traced to the abandonment of religion and its morals: our inheritance. He has no future in this far country.

Four. The Prodigal Son considers some facts. He “re-searches” and remembers the stability and wealth of his father. He determines that his father can afford to hire him as a servant. He decides to leave the pigs and walk back to his father, not as a son, but to feed his body and stay alive. He remains estranged from his father and only wants the benefit of a job. The son turns in the direction of the good and moves toward it.

Five. The Father meets the son on the way and embraces him as his son.

While religious faith is an assurance about things we do not see, visible “facts” and benefits can point us to the good and the true. We do not see the Father, but those who see the signs can take the road back toward him, who will at some point meet them on the way.

Without religious faith, there would be no Western civilization. Without faith, more children suffer, families languish, and democracy is undermined. It’s time to return, and receive the benefits of our inheritance.

James M. Kushiner is a native of Detroit, Michigan, and has lived in Chicago since 1972 with his wife, Patricia, where they are members of All Saints Antiochian Orthodox Church. They have six children and ten grandchildren.

He is the Executive Director of The Fellowship of St. James, a non-profit ecumenical association. He is Executive Editor of Touchstone: A Journal of Mere Christianity.

He is editor, with William A. Dembski, of Signs of Intelligence, (Brazos Press, 2001) and editor of Creed & Culture: A Touchstone Reader, published in 2003 by ISI books.

In 2006 he co-founded Salvo Magazine, a quarterly publication for young adults seeking intelligent responses and alternatives to the secular and materialistic worldviews dominating elite society and the media.

 

Endnotes:

[i] Data came from the 1991-2004 General Social Surveys (GSS). The analytical sample consisted of 7,791 adults. “Are There Religious Variations in Marital Infidelity?” Burdette, A. M.; Ellison, C. G.; Sherkat, D. E., & Gore, K. A. Journal of Family Issues Vol. 28, Number 12. , 2007. Page(s) 1553-1581. FindingID: 9129

[ii] Data came from the 1991-2004 General Social Surveys (GSS). The analytical sample consisted of 7,791 adults. “Are There Religious Variations in Marital Infidelity” Burdette, A. M., Ellison, C. G., Sherkat, D. E., & Gore, K. A. Journal of Family Issues Vol. 28, Number 12. , 2007. Page(s) 1553-1581. FindingID: 9128

[iii] Data came from the 1990 U.S. Census and a sample containing a random selection of 621 counties in the U.S. (20% from each of the 50 states). “The Impact of Concentrations of Religious Denominational Affiliations on the Rate of Currently Divorced in Counties in the United States” Mullins, L. C., Brackett, K. P., Journal of Family Issues Vol. 27, Number 7. , 2006. Page(s) 976-1000. FindingID: 9236

[iv] National Survey of Families & Households II: 1992-1994; Subset of 2,785 married men with children age 18 and under at home of a nationally representative survey of more than 13,000 adults ages nineteen and over. “Soft Patriarchs, New Men: How Christianity Shapes Fathers and Husbands” Wilcox, W. Bradford, Vol. , Number. , 2004. Page(s) 186. FindingID: 6951

[v] Data came from the Fragile Families and Child Well-Being (FFCW) survey, which followed 4,898 children born between 1998 and 2000 and their parents, who were mostly unwed at the time of the child’s birth. The FFCW study is representative of all unwed births in cities with populations larger than 200,000. The analytical sample consisted of 3,214 fathers who participated in the baseline survey, at the time of the child’s birth, and in a follow-up survey one year later. “Religious Participation, Religious Affiliation, and Engagement with Children among Fathers Experiencing the Birth of a New Child,” Petts, Richard J. Journal of Family Issues Vol. 28, Number 9. September , 2007. Page(s) 1139-1161. FindingID: 9141

[vi] Data came from the Fragile Families and Child Well-Being (FFCW) survey, which followed 4,898 children born between 1998 and 2000 and their parents, who were mostly unwed at the time of the child’s birth. The FFCW study is representative of all unwed births in cities with populations larger than 200,000. The analytical sample consisted of 3,214 fathers who participated in the baseline survey, at the time of the child’s birth, and in a follow-up survey one year later. “Religious Participation, Religious Affiliation, and Engagement with Children among Fathers Experiencing the Birth of a New Child” Petts, Richard J. Journal of Family Issues Vol. 28, Number 9. September , 2007. Page(s) 1139-1161. FindingID: 9139

[vii] Data came from the Fragile Families and Child Well-Being (FFCW) survey, which followed 4,898 children born between 1998 and 2000 and their parents, who were mostly unwed at the time of the child’s birth. The FFCW study is representative of all unwed births in cities with populations larger than 200,000. The analytical sample consisted of 3,214 fathers who participated in the baseline survey, at the time of the child’s birth, and in a follow-up survey one year later. “Religious Participation, Religious Affiliation, and Engagement with Children among Fathers Experiencing the Birth of a New Child” Petts, Richard J. Journal of Family Issues Vol. 28, Number 9. September , 2007. Page(s) 1139-1161. FindingID: 9002

[viii] Data from the Early Childhood Longitudinal Study-Kindergarten Class (ECLS-K) regarding parents’ and teachers’ reports on 16,000 kindergärtners and first-graders, beginning with the 1998-1999 school year. “Religion and Child Development: Evidence from the Early Childhood Longitudinal Study,” Bartkowski, John P., Xu, Xiaohe and Levin, Martin L. Social Science Research Vol. NA, Number . , 2007. Page(s) NA. FindingID: 8501

[ix] Data come from Wave I (1994-1995) and Wave II (1996) of the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (“Add Health”), a nationally representative survey of 90,000 American adolescents from grades 7 to 12, aged 12 to 17, on average. The analytic sample is a sub-sample, which consists of 14,027 adolescents who had responded to the “in-home” section of the survey in Wave II. Fagan, Patrick, A Portrait of Family and Religion in America: Key Outcomes for the Common Good, (Washington, D.C.: The Heritage Foundation 2006), pp. FindingID: 8292

[x] Data came from the Early Childhood Longitudinal Study-Kindergarten Class (ECLS-K) regarding parents’ and teachers’ reports on 16,000 kindergärtners and first-graders, beginning with the 1998-1999 school year. “Religion and Child Development: Evidence from the Early Childhood Longitudinal Study,” Bartkowski, John P., Xu, Xiaohe and Levin, Martin L., Social Science Research Vol. NA, Number . , 2007. Page(s) NA. FindingID: 8492

[xi] Data came from the Early Childhood Longitudinal Study-Kindergarten Class (ECLS-K) regarding parents’ and teachers’ reports on 16,000 kindergärtners and first-graders, beginning with the 1998-1999 school year. “Religion and Child Development: Evidence from the Early Childhood Longitudinal Study,” Bartkowski, John P., Xu, Xiaohe and Levin, Martin L. Social Science Research Vol. NA, Number . , 2007. Page(s) NA. FindingID: 8500

[xii] Data came from the Early Childhood Longitudinal Study-Kindergarten Class (ECLS-K) regarding parents’ and teachers’ reports on 16,000 kindergärtners and first-graders, beginning with the 1998-1999 school year. “Religion and Child Development: Evidence from the Early Childhood Longitudinal Study,” Bartkowski, John P., Xu, Xiaohe and Levin, Martin L. Social Science Research Vol. NA, Number . , 2007. Page(s) NA. FindingID: 8499

[xiii] Data come from Wave I (1994-1995) and Wave II (1996) of the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (“Add Health”), a nationally representative survey of 90,000 American adolescents from grades 7 to 12, on average aged 12 to 17. The analytic sample is a sub-sample, which consists of 14,027 adolescents who had responded to the “in-home” section of the survey in Wave II. Fagan, Patrick, A Portrait of Family and Religion in America: Key Outcomes for the Common Good, (Washington, D.C.: The Heritage Foundation 2006), pp. FindingID: 8285

[xiv] Phone survey with a nationally representative sample of 929 young women from three age cohorts. “Personality, attitudinal and behavioral risk profiles of young female binge drinkers and smokers” Pirkle, Erin C., Richter, Linda, Journal of Adolescent Health Vol. 38, Number . , 2006. Page(s) 44-54. FindingID: 9389

[xv] National Education Longitudinal Study--1990, 1992, 1994, and 2000. “The Cumulative Advantage of Religiosity: A Longitudinal Study of Drug Use” Jang, Sung Joon; Johnson, Byron R. Proceedings: Heritage Foundation Conference: Religious Practice and Civic Life: What the Research Says Vol. NA, Number . September, 2007. Page(s) 2007. FindingID: 9401

[xvi] The Only Guarantee of Successful Democracy is a Habit of Self-Restraint by Joseph Weiler. Speech given in Vienna, April 26th, ‘06. Excerpts chosen and edited by the Europe for Christ! Team. For the full version, contact office@europe4christ.net. Joseph H.H. Weiler, born 1951 in Johannesburg, is Professor of International and European Law at the College d’Europe in Brugge and Director of Global Law School Program at New York University School of Law. He is the author of The Constitution of Europe: Do the New Clothes have an Emperor? (1999) and A Christian Europe (Rizzoli, Milan 2003), amongst many other publications. Joseph Weiler is Jewish.

[xvii] God and Politics: Thoughts on the Democratic Future by George Weigel. Speech given in Vienna, April 27th, ‘06. Excerpts chosen and edited by the Europe for Christ! Team. For the full version, contact office@europe4christ.net. George Weigel is Senior Fellow of the Ethics and Public Policy Center and director of the Catholic Studies program. Well-known author and commentator on issues of religion and public life. 

[xviii] Data come from the World Values Survey compiled during 1990-1991 from 43 countries. The final sample consisted of 29 countries ranging from 300 to 4,000 cases. “Religion and Civic Culture: A Cross-National Study of Voluntary Association Membership” Lam, Pui-Yan, Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion Vol. 45, Number 2. , 2006. Page(s) 177-193. FindingID: 8138

[xix] 2000 Social Capital Community Benchmark Survey (SCCBS), with 3,000 respondents to a national survey and 26,000 respondents to surveys in 40 communities. Brooks, Arthur C., Who Really Cares: America’s Charity Divide, (New York: Basic Books 2006), pp. 31-52. FindingID: 8360

[xx] 2000 Social Capital Community Benchmark Survey (SCCBS), with 3,000 respondents to a national survey and 26,000 respondents to surveys in 40 communities. Brooks, Arthur C., Who Really Cares: America’s Charity Divide, (New York: Basic Books 2006), pp. 31-52. FindingID: 8359

[xxi] Russell A. Kirk, from the second in a series of lectures, “Can Our Civilization Survive?” given at the Heritage Foundation, Washington, D.C., July 24, 1992, where he was a Distinguished Scholar. “Civilization Without Religion” was reprinted with permission in Touchstone: A Journal of Mere Christianity (Winter 1993) and is available at www.touchstonemag.com/archives/article.php?id=06-01-005-f.

 

 

 

 

 

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